Do you have to wear white for your wedding? The answer is simply no.

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You may be the type of bride who loves the tradition of weddings. And that’s perfectly fine!! Nothing quite compares to a bridal beauty in white.

But what if that dress you fall in love with, that makes your heart flutter, and gives you all the goosebumps in the world, isn’t white?

In the latest edition of @TheKnot magazine, (which my lovely gal pal Kylee sent me before they hit the stands) was the story of a girl and the gorgeous dress she wore for her wedding in Italy, and it wasn’t white! But boy, was she just as much a bridal beauty in it, as ever. Go grab a copy of July 31st, to read her story!

The point: do what is best for you, and don’t feel the need to follow tradition if your heart is telling you something different. I love the bold brides, who dare to make their wedding dreams a reality. Did you change tradition for you wedding? I’d love to hear about it!

Signing off, it’s Friday, and I’m looking forward to the weekend. Talk soon.

XO C

 

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SUNDAY FUNDAY + EXCITING NEWS!

Happy Sunday all!!

Goodness, it has been a busy weekend: graduation party, visit to the Water Street Market, in New Paltz, NY, and lots of errands and prepping for the week ahead. I love Sundays, even when they are busy. It’s usually a fun busy. There’s nothing like waking up late, going for coffee and brunch at a cute café, and prepping yourself for success for the coming week. It’s like a reset, and refresh to start new.

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You are probably wanting to hear what the EXCITING news is, am I right?!

Well, here goes…..

I have been putting together some details for a few exciting projects, (in the very beginning stages) and I can’t help but share the details about one in particular that I am extra excited about. I am working on launching my very own monthly subscription box!! YES!!! You will have a couple different subscription options, and it’s not going to break the bank, I promise. What’s this all about? I’m glad you asked. The pretty pink box (would you expect me to choose any other color?) will be bursting with items from amazing brands, like health and wellness, beauty, and hand-lettered creations. The goal is to motivate and inspire all women to live their best lives and be the best version of themselves. I love inspiring others, and there’s just something so beautiful and powerful about women inspiring other women. I, myself, struggled with losing my motivation after my mom passed away, and even at times before that. Having some health situations going on, causing me to feel not like myself, I stopped working out, started eating bad again, and have been increasingly starting to hate the way I look. But over the past week, I have fought to gain my mojo back, and I finally got it! You don’t need to spend hundreds on products to be healthy, it just takes little changes, and lots of inspiration. That is my goal for this box.

I am excited to launch this for you all, and if you want to be the first to know when it launches, be sure to subscribe to the newsletter! I am setting up a beta tester team with some of my lovely gal pals, and if you’d like to get on this list, you better email me ASAP! Info@eventsbycocony.com

Here’s to a new week, and I hope you all have a great one!

 

XO C

Comparison is Evil

Com-pare/estimate, measure, or note the similarity or dissimilarity between.

What is comparison, and why is it evil? By the definition above, it is the process of noting the similarities or lack of between different things. How does this have anything to do with your business?

Have you ever been scrolling through your social media feed, looking at all the amazing things your fellow creatives are doing, and start to get that little pit in your stomach thinking, “Why didn’t I think of that? Why can’t my business be like this?” Cue the negative, self-hate comments and thoughts. You may say that you don’t think those negative thoughts and that this doesn’t affect you at all, then more power to ya! That’s great! But even if you don’t notice it, this slowly digs into our confidence, even if you are not noticing it right away.

Why do we do this to ourselves? With social media, and technology being what it is, everyone is out there and in front of our faces with all the amazing things they are doing, so it’s hard not to see. It’s only going to get worse. The world wants visuals, they want to see what you do, before they even think about reaching out to you to inquire about your services or products, and that’s why there are so many beautiful things on our social feeds. They are giving the people what they want!

I’m so terrible with this, I will be honest. That’s why I wanted to write about this because it has been weighing on my heart. I put myself down and bring self doubt into play very often. I see the things others are doing and I start to think, why am I not there yet. What have I done that I am proud of? Crickets.
But I want to remind you, like I have to remind myself, YOU are just as amazing! You will reach your goals, you will create something amazing, as long as you don’t quit working towards it.

Just because others are doing amazing things, doesn’t mean we cant. You cannot measure your beginning with someone else’s middle or ending. The person who may have created that amazing thing, may have struggled for years before it happened. It doesn’t make your business any less awesome! Often times this drains us of our motivation because we are constantly seeing what others are doing, so we lose our own voice, our own creativity. We take away our own ideas and awesome things that we can be doing, or creating.

I’ve struggled for years with so many insecurities. Being miserable with my life, feeling like I’ll never be good enough. Always chasing my purpose, feeling like I’ll never find it. Trying new things and failing and then thinking why did I bother?

STOP. Right now, I want you to stop, and I want myself to stop. I want you to stop spending so much time comparing yourselves, and start doing! Start creating! The more time you spend on your own growth, and creating, the happier you will feel. You have it in you, no go do it!

 

XO Coco

Real Wedding Nicole & Troy

 

 

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Im super excited to share this wedding with you all! This past weekend I celebrated with a wedding I have been planning for the last year or so. Nicole and Troy, the sweetest, most laid back, fun-loving couple I have worked with. I met Nicole about a year ago. She had stumbled across my business on Wedding Wire and contacted me to discuss EBC possibly helping to plan her wedding.

After meeting her, I instantly knew she’d be an awesome bride to work with. Her and her (then) fiancé were so sweet. They wanted a rustic wedding with accents of grey and yellow, including real moss, fresh wildflowers that they picked themselves, and twinkle lights. And that is exactly what they got. It couldn’t have been more perfect

From the real tree trunk cooler that their friend made, to the engraved wood cake stand, it was everything she dreamed of.

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The wedding was held at the beautiful, rustic venue, Senate Garage, located in the historic district of Kingston NY, and met all the expectations that a venue would need to meet to fit this theme perfectly. From the old, exposed brick, to the rustic, twinkle chandeliers, it did not disappoint, and left Nicole, Troy, and all their guests dancing by into the night under the twilight. Working with April, one of the venue managers, was wonderful! She was tremendously helpful, and assisted with making sure the wedding day ran smoothly.

I’m so sad the planning had to end, but I feel so blessed and happy to have worked with them to make their wedding a beautiful dream. As I write this, we are heading off to Lake George, NY for the weekend! I am excited to get away for a bit and relax by the lake. I’ll leave you with some more beauties by the amazing Lynette from Pioneer Media!

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Fruitful Friendships Summer Meetup!!!

Photo by @LaraCasey Click to purchase workbook!
 

Loving others is something that usually comes natural to me, but I also have a way to go towards having more meaningful, Fruitful Friendships. Tending is something we should not only do to our fruit in our gardens, but also to our friendships. 

That’s why I’m excited to announce I will be starting a Fruitful Friendships Summer Meetup, thanks to Lara Casey and her workbook that goes along with this! 

If you are craving real friendships, this is for you!

If you want to experience a more meaningful, fruitful summer with your friends, this is for you!

If you want a fun place to go and enjoy making fun memories, this is for YOU! 

So this series will be starting May 31st. You’ll want to make sure to grab your workbook from Lara beforehand. If you are not near my area, I would challenge you to follow along with Lara, as she goes trough the workbook with her live series! If you are near me, please email, comment, message me any way you can do I can add you to my list!!

I’m excited to grow with you all, whether you’re new friends, old friends, I know this will be a fun way to make our friendship more FRUITFUL & FUN!!! 

Happy Friday and may you all have a blessed weekend!

XO C

#EBCbiztalks: The Business Tool You Need

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Why, trello there. Ok that was super corny, but hey!

So, I love exploring new apps for my business, especially ones that are created to assist in making being a business owner easier. Now, keep in mind, nothing beats a cute notebook, fancy pens, and writing things down. I love writing things down.

But since I was recently introduced to Trello, thanks to the lovely Rosemary Watson, who chatted about it in one of her Instagram stories, I’ve been HOOKED!

This list building tool has taken organization to the next level. Being able to build boards, with lists inside of lists, having the ability to add comments, and anything else you need to remember is definitely a win win. I’ve been obsessed! I already have about 10 separate boards for different projects, weddings, and my content planner.

Even better, you can customize the backgrounds to fit the theme of the board you are creating. I’m going to do a full walk through video on using this, so stay tuned for that!

But to get you started, here are 5 ideas of boards you can create using Trello:

1. Events/Party Plans, it’s a great way to keep track of invite lists, rsvps, and all planning tasks!

2. Your Business Manual, keep track of all your business information, tax details, budget, and any other important details.

3. Branding, keeps your business branding organized, colors, add swatches, items you’d like to purchase, and other brand inspiration.

4. Weekly/Monthly Planning, I’ve been keeping track of daily and weekly tasks, such as emails, to do’s, and more.

5. Editorial Calendar/Content Planning, this one I’ve used to create my full content calendar, social media planning, and blog post planning, including my workflow for publishing a blog post.

I can definitely see myself being more organized since I’ve been using this, and creating better workflows for my business with the help of Trello has been super easy! What tips and tricks do you guys have for your workflows and staying organized? I’d love to hear!

xo C

 

How Traveling to Paris Changed My Life

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Friday, we meet again! It’s been one heck of a week, and I’ve been having the blues being stuck at work, between watching Norwegian Cruise Line’s beach fun story, and Flutter Mag’s Paris trip story on Instagram, you can understand why I want to bang my head against my desk! That’s why I wanted to travel back to a time when I visited what seemed like the most magical place to me.

Everybody has that one place. The one place in the world that you’ve been to, and you have fallen in love with. A place that gives you feelings of bliss and jubilance that no other place can give. For me, that place is Paris, France. Not everyone knows that I have been there, but I have, and I will never be the same.

It’s a trip I remember as if it happened yesterday. I was 15 years old. My uncle traveled to Paris every year. It was his most desired place in the world, and with good reason. I would soon understand why. Usually he’d take along a friend, as my aunt never had an interest in going, which was surprising to me. But this one specific year he decided to take me. I, of course, said yes, and off we went! We embarked on an adventure that I would never forget.

Let’s begin with my first flight, which turned out to be an adventure in itself. I spent that 8 hours reading all about the city, and watching movies, and thinking about what we’d be doing when we arrive. As the flight came to an end, and first class started exiting, I noticed a familiar face. Continuing on to enter the airport, I noticed a bunch of screaming girls. That familiar face I had noticed earlier was Carson Daly, the once well-known MTV host of TRL. I was 15 guys, don’t judge. I had to have my picture taken with him.

From the airport, we had a short drive to the city. I remember stepping off the bus, turning to see the Arc De Triumph, and thinking, “Wow, I didn’t realize how big it really is.”

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The hotel on Rue De Bac, was quaint, but impressive to me, a 15 year old who got her own room! One side had a view of the street, overlooking all the little shops. The back view looked right into a modeling studio. I actually got to watch real French models practice walking on a catwalk, in the most beautiful outfits. At the time, being a fashion fanatic, dreaming of being a model myself, this meant everything.

The next few days were full of delicious meals, and lots of sight seeing, explorations at The Louvre, and Notre Dame Cathedral, and of course, The Eiffel Tower. You’d never ever imagine its immense size, until you stand underneath this massive beauty!

Our trip to The Louvre, I remember, was cut short, due to the horrid onset of jet lag that knocked me on my butt. But I at least got to see most of the incredible art, including Mona Lisa, which is actually quiet small, mounted on her own wall. But still beautiful.

The next day would prove to be the biggest “adventure” of all. We were robbed. Yup, pick-pocketed. The thief took my passport, our traveler’s checks, and my uncle’s wallet. This put a bit of a damper on our trip for a couple days, leaving us to eat mostly baguettes and water for the next couple days (small exaggeration, but you get the idea), and included an extra special trip to the Embassy. Of course, I couldn’t go inside with my uncle, because my passport was stolen. So I was left to wait on the street, which to a 15 year old, in a foreign city, was a bit scary. But everything got straightened out, and we got most of the traveler’s checks reimbursed. Yay! The fun could continue.

We visited a very beautiful church that sits atop a hill, overlooking the city, and The Eiffel Tower. There was an art festival nearby, full of artists selling their immaculate work. Some sitting right there, painting their next masterpiece. I was in awe. Pure beauty.

My eyes were opened to so much culture, art, life, and love on this trip. And I’d never forget it. I was in love. Paris had stolen my heart, and I can’t wait to plan my next trip to visit the piece of it that was left there.

Traveling opens your mind and soul to so much. I challenge everyone to explore outside of what you know. It’s amazing the things you will find.

Now, can one of you lovely brides PLEASE let me plan your wedding there?! 😉 And with that, enjoy your weekends!!

How to: Get Fit for Your Wedding

BRIDAL BODY GUIDE

Hey, hi happy FRI-yay beauties.

We’re about to get real for a minute. Have you ever been scrolling through Insta, and looking through wedding mags, and think to yourself, where TF do these gorgeous, model-like brides come from? Like is there a planet that they just drop down to earth from? Really now? 

I mean, way to put even MORE pressure on brides to look their absolute best, amiright? 

Before you go run out and start that gym membership, or go on some crazy crash diet, let me tell you about my dear friend Lauryn, who I had the awesome opportunity to interview a while back, which you can see right HERE. She has gone above and beyond by doing all the hard work for you, creating a badass Bridal Body Plan ! The best part about what Lauryn has created, is her plans are easy, and effective. We are all busy, and it seems that finding an hour to dedicate to ourselves, our health, and our bodies, is nearly impossible sometimes. But these plans literally take about 20 minutes of your time. Best part is, you can join as a member for less than 10 bux a month, which allows you access to all of her plans, including meal plans, recipes, targeted workout guides, and an amazing community of babes to help keep you accountable. And you can cancel at anytime, if needed, but you’ll be so hooked, you won’t want to.

Even better, my lovely ladies (EBC brides) get even extra special treatment. Lauryn and her amazing team have created a very special discount code for all of you who are interested in signing up, and looking your absolute best for your wedding day. AND because I love my brides sooooo much, if you do sign up, you will receive a copy of her book, The Skinny Confidential: Lifestyle Guide from me! You’re welcome babes! Let’s chat about your wedding and how you can become a spoiled EBC bride!

And with that, I wish you all a lovely weekend!! Enjoy, and speak soon!

MEET: THE WHITE BOX

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GUYS! Spring is here! I couldn’t be more excited that the warm, sunny weather has finally decided to join the party.

So, you guys know I am always on the lookout for products that will help make your planning process more fun, and as easy as possible.

 Well, I have a new favorite resource that I need to share with you all. Meet, The White Box. Michelle and Carrie, the founders, are in love with all things design, and have become your personal wedding planning fairy godmothers. 

They have created the perfect planning assistant that is sent to you in a pretty little white box, wrapped in a bow. I came across their company through Instagram, and I immediately fell in love with the whole concept. I knew I had to work with these lovely ladies, and introduce them to all of you. 

Photo courtesy of The White Box

Where does the inspiration come from?

As industry experts, they know what is involved in planning your most important day, and they know it isn’t an easy fete. But it can be, with the right tools and assistance! They have taken their interior design skills and experience, and have combined it with customized design packages, bringing to you THE WHITE BOX

What can you expect from your box?

“The box arrives within 3 weeks including an inspiration board, design samples (invitations samples, linen swatches + bridesmaid dress fabrics), menu plans, tactical checklists, a signature drink recipe, and more!”

Their goal to create a planning toolkit perfectly suited to your clear wedding design style, and vision, will excited and ready to plan you dream day!

I’m so excited to be working aside these lovely  ladies, as they are so thrilled to work alongside and contract out to planners like me, to streamline the process to planning your wedding!

Go check them out, or shoot me a message for more details!! 


Xo Coco

It’s My Birthday: 30 Lessons in 30 Years

 

Life is funny.

We spend our younger years rushing the days, wishing we were older. Counting each day till our next birthday. And then it happens. You wake up, and realize there’s a couple weeks left till you turn the big 3-0. It’s happening to me.

I can’t believe almost 30 years have gone by like the blink of an eye. 30 full years of life lessons, loving memories, and many ups and downs. I can honestly say the last 30 years have taught me a lot, and I wouldn’t change a single bit of it. But turning doesn’t mean I have to stop eating cake, and wearing pink, does it?! Please tell me it gets better from here. I figured this would be the best time to post about 30 things I have learned and experienced in my 30 years of life. Oh, and I will be using the term 30 years young from now on. 

  1. Our bodies are very intricate and full of many surprising things. Take care of it early on, and you’ll be so much better off in the long run.
  2. Education is important. You may change your mind 20 times, and that’s alright. But don’t give up, and chase your dreams. You can literally be anything you want! Especially in this generation. 
  3. Patience is a virtue. And it’s a very tough lesson to learn. I feel like God has been trying to forcibly teach me this my entire life. And I still fail at times. But it’s true that good things come to those who wait. And when it’s something you really want, it will be so much better if you’re patient and wait for God’s perfect timing. 
  4. Prayer is important. Don’t be afraid to pray and ask god for anything. He knows your heart’s desires and has true plans for you. His timing is perfect trust me, I’ve seen it. 
  5. Life is guaranteed to throw you the most unexpected curve balls that you will ever imagine. You can’t change it. You can’t avoid it. You just learn to continue forward. And you will be ok!
  6. Death is the worst thing ever. And it will take the most unexpected person, at the most unexpected times. Losing my mom taught me that. Don’t ever miss an opportunity to tell the people who matter to you, that you love them. Don’t take the small moments for granted. The little things will one day be the big things.
  7. Love is wild. It’s a trip. And you may think it’ll never find you. But the moment you stop looking, it’ll sneak up behind you. 
  8. Be open to try things. It’s in those moments that you might find your true passion. 
  9. Forgive people. Don’t hold onto those grudges from your childhood. I’ve finally come to a place in my life where I’ve forgiven those who’ve wronged me. It takes more energy to hate. Let it go.
  10. Don’t regret a single choice. Even the bad ones. They become your life lessons. Learn from them, and then let them go.
  11. Get money smart. Your credit matters. Understand it, and be smart. You’ll be better off when you grow up.
  12. Don’t do anything that you don’t enjoy. If you hate that job, quit. If you don’t like that activity, don’t do it. Life is too short to not be happy.
  13. You can be the change. If you see a problem, fix it. One person really can make a difference. 
  14. Lead, don’t follow. Watch what what others are doing. Be yourself, and focus on what YOU do great! And do it!
  15. Honesty and trust are what matters most. Don’t get caught being a liar, or untrustworthy. It’ll affect you forever. 
  16. Your age is just a number. You’re only as old as you feel. Me, I’ll be 21 forever.
  17. Relationships should make you happy and a better person. If they do the opposite, get rid of them. You’ll be much better off!
  18. Technology is here to stay. Being able to use it will help you get things done!
  19. Connect with people! Don’t be afraid to reach out, making connections can offer great opportunity down the road.
  20. Nothing is impossible. Says Audrey Hepburn, my favorite lady. 
  21. Don’t expect people to be honest and trustworthy. But also, don’t expect people to be deceitful and dishonest. Just trust your gut.
  22. Pay off bad debts. It’s a great feeling when you do.
  23. Invest in yourself. Find your purpose, treat yourself, educate your mind.
  24. Don’t seek approval from others. You’ll never please everyone, so don’t try!
  25. Life is too short to follow someone else’s dream. Don’t do it.
  26. Travel to new places! It’ll open your mind, you’ll learn new things, and it’ll be a great opportunity! There’s so many beautiful places to see. 
  27. Unplug every now and then. You don’t need to be connected every second of the day. 
  28. Don’t chase money. It doesn’t buy you happiness. Nor will it fix all of your problems.
  29. Support others and celebrate their achievements. It’s not always all about you. 
  30. Accept and embrace change. Something good might just come out of it.

That being said, I’m 30 now. Is this real life? I am excited though to see what this new journey and next chapter of my life will bring! 

Xo C